Are you losing patience by listening to the child’s disobedient words every day? “Why not listen to my child?” Or “What should be done when the child gets angry?”-such a question makes many parents tired of the mind. When the child is not listening or repeatedly answering, it becomes difficult to keep himself calm. But at this time Control It is important to do. In this feature you will know how to handle the child’s disobedient words by maintaining peace with only 5 strategies.
Tactics
1. Stay calm by yourself
The child’s inner Anger It’s normal to wake up. But if you are calm, then he will learn – not a solution to a problem.
- Quietly breathe for ten seconds
- Take some time for yourself if needed
- Seeing your reaction, the child will slowly learn how to deal with the situation.
2. Build easy rules at home
Children are easily confused if they do not know the specified limit. “We speak politely”, “I do not abuse even if angry” – means such rules in small sentences.
- The rules are not in a quarrel, but in a quiet state, fix it
- Tell me, what will be the result if the rules are not obeyed.
For example, the time period will be reduced, or screen time will decrease. Thus the child will learn the importance of discipline.
3. Listen carefully
Many times the child behaves badly from pride or suffering.
If you ask – “Are you angry or not?” – He will understand that you are by his side.
Say, “I’ll listen, but say politely.”
Talking in this way, it will create security and respect.
3. Appreciate the good behavior
Appreciate not just the punishment for the child’s disobedient words, but whenever the child speaks neatly or obeys the rules. Give small prizes occasionally. In this they will understand – the results of good use are good.
3. Be in consistent, be patient
The child’s behavior does not change in one day. So if you obey the rules, you will not accept the same rules quietly in the same rules.
The child should not be confused. Be patient, remind you repeatedly and encourage improvement. And if you see the situation is going out of control, do not hesitate to consult a child psychologist.
When the child speaks rudely, it is not only your patience test, but also the opportunity to teach. If you respond patiently to patiently, then he will slowly learn – how to show respect, control yourself and maintain a relationship.
Your love, patience and strong position will one day make him a responsible man.
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