Parents are so valuable to parents that it does not compare to anything else. Let your child be protected, healthy, grow properly, this is what everyone wants. Even with the little fever of the child, parents do not understand what to do, if thousands of efforts can reduce the child’s suffering! This is the parents’ genuine love Child Every These words are known to everyone. But today I will talk about the issue that many of us reject. And that is the bridal dispute and the child’s mental health.
From the relationship of parents’ mutual confidence and love, the child first learns what the family is. The love of the parents helps the child to grow healthy, beautifully; In the same way, the bridal feud or the psychic is pushing the child to an uncertain future.
How does parents’ quarrels have an impact on the child?
If there is an event like domestic violence in the family, is the child being healthy in that environment? According to a report, about 12% of married women in Bangladesh are physically and mentally abused. The Psychological Science Journal published a report in the 21st where it was said that when the parents quarreled in front of a 6-month-old child, it caused adverse reactions to the brain. As a result of being in this kind of stressful environment for a long time Mental developmentHe is late.
In addition, another report comes from kindergarten to teenage that boys and girls grow up in the midst of family conflicts, in many cases their mantle disorder occurs.
The impact on the bridal dispute and the child
Let’s not see what kind of impact the child has on this case-
Confidence
From an early age, he could not become confident when he grew up seeing parents’ feud. Since a healthy family environment is not getting and what he should do in this situation, it cannot be understood. Gradually he lost his confidence. He does not even get the opportunity to develop his personality.
Inadequacy
He cannot keep up with any task because of losing confidence. It is also a type of mantle disorder.
Rumble
There are different types of changes to each child. Some are very scared, some stubborn, no one or anger can control, such an issue is seen. Always being indifferent, not wanting to be mixed with someone or to play with others Rudley – all of this is the result of family unrest. The bridal dispute hinders every step of the child’s mental development.
Degradation
The baby who is always upset, grows up in the room; It is quite difficult for him to take attention in education. And he comes for a while and gives up. That is why, many boys come to teenage and get involved in immoral acts, give the ear drop. Can no longer be focused in study.
Physical illness
Continuously staying in the stress but In the body Different types of diseases occur. Insomnia, fever, weakness, appetite, headache and even abnormally talking, talking about various problems including being involved. And mental exhaustion becomes his daily partner.
Mental trauma
If Childhood Cut in panic, insecurity; So think what will happen in the future? Those who grow up seeing the bridal dispute are confused to cheer the right life partner in life. Due to this mental trauma, they also suffer from insecurity in married life. Many, however, try or straggle to overcome this trauma.
What to do with parents?
3) Ask yourself once, is your anger, Iago is everything bigger than your child? Think of it once before engaging in any word, do you have any benefits without harm? Or you are very happy to win the argument, while your child is scared, feeling helpless; So who gained this temporary win?
2) Always try to solve the problem without being excited and talking slowly. Do not argue in front of the baby. Rather, it is the best decision to move away from that place, thinking later. Remember, he will learn what to teach the child. If you do good things, if you do good, the child will learn. If you talk about Rudley, he will remember that.
3) Beginning with the responsibility of the child to the responsibility of the child, from the study of all things. It is very important to spend time with the child. Talk about his mind, what he is thinking, what he wants to say, play everything or story. Baby Mental health Helps to develop.
3) Never force the child to take the side of any one by focusing on the family dispute. Or do not highlight the bad side of one another to him. Help the child be positive. Try to give parents a positive idea to the relationship.
What is the solution?
It is a misconception that all the problems of the world will be resolved by taking a baby. Will all the problems be solved by the arrival of the child in the world without changing the bridal dispute and changing themselves? Rather, your child will be subjected to trauma as you cannot overcome your personal problems.
So what should be done? Get separated? The child always wants to get both his parents along. So compress yourself in some cases for the child’s future, take mutual decision, remove it if you have a communication gap. Take an Expert Help if needed, seek refuge in a consultant. Couples counseling can be a good option.
And if it becomes impossible to compress, the baby is victim of domestic violins, then you can understand and decide to be separated, of course, with the consent of the two parties. This will relieve the child at least the unpleasant events that happen daily. It is necessary to ensure that the child can grow up in a normal, healthy environment.
Parents’ friendly relationship gives the child security. Your child’s beautiful childhood should not be trauma for some mistakes of yourself! Honor each other with spouses and ensure the child’s safe and beautiful future. So far today, be good and keep others well.
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