‘If you don’t like it, go away! Can’t explain so much! Think whatever you want! I wish I will! ‘-What are the words very familiar? We often use these words while speaking or conversing with loved ones. Only the spouse Relationship Not in the case, it can be siblings, friends, friends and even colleges in the office. If the situation is calm after a while, it seems ‘This is! What did I say, what will happen now! ‘ After saying repeatedly, the opposite is said that everything is normal, but some words may be formed in his mind for a lifetime. Even if you try to explain repeatedly, that relationship cannot be made as beautiful as before.
Small things often cause great problems in the form of a great deal of problems and the form of a breakdown or separation! So no matter how complicated the problem is, it should not be the reason for the separation of your relationship or the conversation! But how? Today, I will know about some important things.
How to stay away from the speech or speech?
3) I have to control the thoughts that ‘I am right’
We do not want to hear or understand anything on the other side while speaking or speaking. If there is such a ‘I am right’ Then the words will only increase the words and quarrels. At that time you are right, but do not argue with the other side and give him time until it is cold. The other side must try to understand the reason why the word is saying. Create an environment that you are trying to understand. Then slowly try to explain your place to him. But in this case ‘You must understand, I’m very patient’ Such a mindset cannot be kept.
2) cannot be shattered with weakness
We are none Perfect Not On the way to life, we are all in a good bad situation. The beautiful relationship can be broken immediately because of the mindset or conversation. But very few people can keep the relationship beautiful in thousands of problems. Depending on the depth of two people’s relationships, one can share a lot of people. Which may not naturally be shared.
Our present cannot be judged by the past or negative surroundings of our lives. So even in the very bad time, no one can be shocked to think that the argument is only to win the debate. It may argue at that particular time, but the relationship may not be as beautiful as before.
3) The third person cannot be embraced in their own argument
At one point in their own words, everything goes well. But it is a bad nature of many of us to engage in another third person. Think about how wrong we have made from parents to big, from parents to big! Now if they talk about our weaknesses or jokes to people outside the family, do we love it? Not at all!
Likewise, no matter what the relationship between the two people, no one will ever want the third person to be involved in these issues! It is compromised between the two people at the end of the day, but the third person’s head remains many irrelevant and misconceptions. It also creates a kind of uncomfortable or abnormal arrangement with the person. So it is wise to not engage the third person as much as possible during the time of speech.
3) The fear of leaving the words cannot be shown
Many of us are delighted to leave for a very small quarrel or just to win the argument! You may think that the other side is to endure silently, you may think that this time he won the argument! But the work you did is the biggest mistake and in a sense fool! Thus a kind of distance is created towards each other!
There is something called ‘Taken for Granted’ in English. About when one gets another one who gets another one, ‘He will be there, he will do it. ” – It is then that because of such unwanted expression, the relationship moves from beautiful to illness. Gradually the mind begins to rise from the relationship.
3) Two people cannot be screaming at the same time
Suppose you have a lot of pressure on your work! In the meantime one of your senior gave you a job. Every work is important for you. Can’t understand what to do with what to do. In the meantime the senior came again Anger He asked you to do the job now! You couldn’t take it too. The senior started talking angrily with more joy! What will happen to it in the end, think once? Negativity and quarrel will increase about the colleges. There will be no working environment. Mental turmoil will increase.
If one of the ragaragi’s archeology would have kept his head cool and tried to understand or listen to the other place, but in the beginning these problems would not have happened! So of course, in unusual situations, the two cannot shout at the same time! Anyone must be patient.
3) Explain the logical words if the situation is normal
When we are angry, we naturally want another to understand my place. Suppose you are very angry with me. I don’t want to hear or understand your place. But I want you to listen to me. At one point I am trying to explain to you with logic. At that time, even if I say the right thing, you may not like to hear it. Wently you can use me more badly with me. So from my place I am right, but it is wise to take time until the situation is normal. Both should be given the opportunity to speak in this case.
3) Long Term should be thought of by going out of thought during the quarrel
The mistake we all make during the quarrel is that we do not think about the future at all! The quarrelsome or disintegration is the most but most of us. After a little quarrel with the parents, it becomes okay. Similarly, we have to stay with these people at the end of the day, even though there is a quarrel with someone in the office, spouses or in the office. But one thing that is said in anger during the fascination or speech can cut the stains in the mind of the other man for a lifetime. So in the future, you have to think of Long Term without going out of thought in the future.
3) Talk about specific problems without saying a mess
Suppose you have trouble with any office colleague. You are doing a job with him. You have done your job properly but Kolig submits to his work without his work! For that you had to talk in front of everyone. What do you do at that time? Will you explain the mistake of the colleague in the cold head or will you scold him in front of everyone? Do you pull some more old words?
If you are short tampered and think of it that you will be talking about it is definitely yours Self More work should be done on development or Emotional Intelligence. At a negative time, do not say emotionally frostated, talk about the problem, talk about the problem that is having problems and try to solve the problem.
3) Must have the Mind Set to resolve the end of the mono
‘Why would you tell me it? Why should I tell you? The way I like me, I’ll go! ‘ Does the words look very familiar? Let me be limited to what happened during the time of speech or conversation. Our grandmothers often used to say one thing, ‘If there are so many ghatibas together, there will be a sound.’The Likewise, if you walk together, there will be a little mindless or talk about anything. But it is foolish to sit in mind. Both sides have to have a solution to the solution at the end of the confusion.
There are words’Anyone can break the relationship, but very few people can build and hold the relationship. ‘ Although our life is very short, it is our responsibility to make its journey beautiful. If you can take care of such small things during the mind or talk, our relationships can also survive well. At the same time, you have to give time to each other in any bad situation and you must understand and explain another place.
Hopefully, today’s article will be a little bit better to make our relationships a little better. And of course, be careful, the reason or the conversation is not the reason for the separation of your relationship!
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